Dads for a Day
“Happiness,” it is said, “is when you realize your children have turned out to be good people.” Raising successful people takes a combination of patience, guidance, understanding and resourcefulness. Often, family circumstances are less than ideal. That is the case with many children who have lost their fathers. The reasons are varied and include Dads who have died in combat, passed away due to health issues or sadly, abandoned their families.
Raising boys without Dads is the problem Curtis Ostrander seeks to address. He is the founder of ‘Dads For A Day,’ a faith-based volunteer nonprofit agency serving fatherless boys ages 9-14 years in Central Florida. One in three children in our area lives in homes without fathers. In the program, each boy is paired with a mentor. Modeling positive social behaviors, instilling work ethics and nurturing confidence are the hopeful outcomes of these close relationships.
Harbor Hills neighbor Peter Steriti has been a mentor for two and a half years. “Dads For A Day,” Peter says, “gives me the opportunity to make a difference in a boy’s life. It’s both humbling and rewarding.” Steriti lost his Dad when he was only thirteen years old. Although he lived alone with his mom, they were surrounded by a large traditional Italian family and caring community in Boston’s ethnic North End. Cooking is about creating memories and that’s exactly what Peter and his mom did. Peter preserved the recipes and created a cooking website, www.luciatramonte.com. The site is named in honor of his mother. Lucia Tramonte was her maiden name.
Frederick Douglass said, “It’s easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” Become a positive role model by contacting 269-945-2744. Help to build a better world, one boy at a time.
One of the most important things we can do to manage anxiety is to stay rational and calm. We are washing our hands diligently, drinking a lot of water, eating healthy and social distancing. What else can we seniors do to feel calm and use our time enjoyably?
- It’s time to catch up on those movies! Choose something lighthearted such as comedies and old favorites.
- Embrace crafting such as quilting, woodworking and card-making. Learn a new skill. Experiment with cooking. It’s a perfect time for that new recipe!
- Work your brain with free on-line games such as crossword puzzles and sudoku. Try short Ted Talks at ted.com. Or a free on-line language course at duolingo.com.
- Relax with a book. Don’t forget Audible.com for on-line story-telling. It’s the largest source of audiobooks in the world.
- The power of meditation and breathing exercises is well-documented. Stretching, dancing and breathwork reduce stress and restore energy.
- Now is a perfect time to write that poem or memoir. “The Book of Me” poses questions to prompt creativity.
- Take a virtual trip! Use Google maps to explore the world from your living room. Take a trip to Kangaroo Island in Australia or snorkel in French Polynesia. How about a helicopter ride over the Grand Canyon? The possibilities are limitless.
- Visit family on Facetime or Skype. The smiles of children and grandchildren can make a big difference. Send a virtual hug!
Finding ways to relax and feel comforted help us stay positive as we move through this temporary situation. Note: The Harbor Hills Ladies Charity Unique Boutique scheduled for Thursday and Friday has been cancelled. The sale resumes next year.
Jr Golf at Harbor Hills
Junior golf programs have long been an essential avenue for young golfers who love the game. It’s a game that teaches kids to become responsible adults in a multitude of ways. College scholarships and the potential of a professional career have always been strong enticements. Familiar names such as Jim Furyk, Phil Michelson, Paula Creamer and Christie Kerr all came through the ranks of junior golf. Harbor Hills professional Tom Leimberger encourages early exposure to the sport.“Start at a young age,” he says, “to get the fundamentals right.”
Mark Panigoni and Keith McColl agree. The two first met in 2015 at St. Andrews in Scotland, golf’s undisputed birthplace. A great friendship ensued and four years later, they formed the Highlander Junior Golf Tour in Florida. Their goal is to develop junior golfers in Florida with year-round play in a competitive and encouraging environment. Mark and Keith are strongly committed to providing ample opportunities for our youngsters to grow in golf and in the game of Life.
The Highlander Junior Golf Tour is now host to regular competitive golf matches. Most importantly, these matches are all at an affordable price with local venues close to home. This Saturday, Harbor Hills Country Club is honored to host the tour. It’s a stroke play event and Harbor Hills is the perfect setting for both players and spectators. Sponsorship is what keeps these opportunities available for our aspiring young golfers. For more information, link to http://highlanderjuniortour.com/.
Speaking of age-related achievements, hearty congratulations to friend and neighbor Jim Cochran. Jim, 73, shot his age for the first time ever at his home course of Harbor Hills. Way to go, Jim!
Harbor Hills Italian American Club
“Mangia bene, ridi spresso, ama molto.” Eat well, laugh often, love much! This charming expression of joy is at the heart of the Harbor Hills Italian-American Club. The club honors Italian heritage and culture in many delightful ways. The members take pride in their considerable culinary skills and prepare Italian delights for their monthly meetings. Club activities include dining at various Italian restaurants, day excursions, extended trips and an annual picnic.
Today, members of the Harbor Hills Italian American Club are welcoming all residents and the public to a very special dinner dance on March 20, 2020. It’s La Dolce Vita Gala, the Sweet Life; a formal evening and the 10th anniversary celebration of the popular Harbor Hills club.
The music features Suzie Casta, one of the most well-liked performers in The Villages. She will be singing Italian favorites as well as a dance music mix for everyone. “It’s about taking the time to appreciate what you have and the world around you,” she explained.” It’s about the joy of being alive.” The members of Harbor Hills’ Italian-American Club couldn’t agree more!
Event chairperson Kathryn Dindia has selected multiple choices of authentic dishes from different regions of Italy for the formal evening. The menu includes Chicken Saltimbocca, Haddock Puttanesca and Pork Osso Buco. Tiramisu is served with (what else?) Amaretto or Sambuca for dessert.
Last years event was spectacular and this year is on track to sell-out. Villagers are encouraged to participate in and enjoy this extra-special Italian club event at the picturesque Harbor Hills Country Club. Everyone is welcome. For more information, contact Kathryn at Kathryn.firstname.lastname@example.org or call the Harbor Hills Country Club at 352-753-7000.
The square and compass are easily the most recognizable symbols of freemasonry. These architectural tools have special meanings that include a sense of judgement, balance and stability. Freemasonry or masonry can trace its origins to the end of the fourteenth century and to the stonemasons who created the organization.
Today, the programs and services of this worldwide fraternity are well known. Causes range from operating children’s hospitals, funding medical research, helping the underprivileged and contributing to local community needs. The 22 Shriners children’s hospitals in the US, Canada and Mexico comprise one of the world’s largest pediatric health care systems.
Herb Lunden is proud to be both marshal and event chairman of the Wildwood Masonic Lodge No. 92. His 47 years of masonry make him uniquely qualified to create a spectacular event to benefit local charities.
On Saturday, March 21, our championship course will be transformed into a Par Three extravaganza. All 18 holes will feature extraordinary prizes for holes-in-one, closest to the hole, lowest score and best team scores. “Our generous sponsors stepped up with amazing prizes,” Herb explains. ”A Cancun vacation, airfare included, cars from both Phillips Buick and Phillips Toyota, a Bill Bryan jeep, a golf cart from both Cart World and Titan as well as a customized golf cart from Streetrod. Every hole will display prizes from major sponsors.”
The per person cost is $100 which includes cart, range balls and a buffet lunch. Hole sponsorships are $125 and includes company signage. Mail checks payable to Wildwood Masonic Lodge No. 92, 103 Georgia St. Wildwood, Florida 34785. Contact Herb Lunden at 229-548-5514. Help us continue to do good works in our local community.